
Many scientists say that the human dominance over animals is the language - the fact that we think and communicate in words. We can speak but still we don't always understand each other. Why is this happen?
Communication is not that easy as it seems and speaking is only one of the elements that it consists of. Apparently it's accepted that the words account for only 7-11% of it. There is also a body language that many people aren't aware of existing or don't know how to use. And if speech and body don't go with themselves someone can be easily misinterpreted. Intentions won't be clear enough.
But nowadays many people realize that good communication skills are not only the key to a good business but also a key to a good living. If you can't communicate your thoughts and ideas correctly you won't earn anything in this world.
Many situations can be affected by poor communication. So in this purpose people go for a Communication training that helps improve their skills. Also lots of books have been written about how to be a good speaker and listener, how to make speaking effective. And effective communication happens when we reply on those things we know to be true about ourselves and we seem true to another person.
In the century of the internet and global information good communication is specially important. Managers and politics who are often obliged to speak in public need to be persuasive as they seem confident and reliable. Poor presenter can kill any deal, and a good one can sway the decision makers. As for managers the Presentation Training can be enough to build up their charisma and credibility. For politics it should be something more. From their image, language skills depend how electioneering will end up. In this purpose politics have panels of experts that help them look good, be persuasive, and make a good impressions that will bring them votes. Experts teach them also how to speak correctly and how to use their bodies to look honest and smart. It can be very important for them to develop their use of voice and body language to be effective. Usually their speeches are specially written too.
You can always make some adjustments to make yourself a better interlocutor. There are few things that awareness of will help you achieve this aim. First, you have to remember that a good communication is when a person who is speaking understands the same as the listener. Simple way of getting that is to rephrase the words of speaker and make sure you didn't misunderstood him. Second, try to focus on things that you are good at which will help you be more self-confident and more positive. By changing your attitude your words also become more positive - affirmation and encouragement help get the best out of people. Third, be aware of assumptions and patterns you make that have impact on your communication. Sometimes our behavior depends on what we assumpt earlier and think about other person or ourselves that might not necessarily be true. Too many wrong assumptions is a quick way to misunderstanding. And for last, you don't always have to be right - sometimes it is better to let go. It's a good way to promote effective relationships. By giving up, you can let someone know that you understand his point of view.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Why Good Communication Is So Important?
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Why is education so important?

The first thing that strikes me about education is knowledge gain. Education gives us the knowledge of the world around us. It develops in us a perspective of looking at life. It helps us build opinions and have points of view on everything in life. People debate over the subject of whether education is the only thing that gives knowledge. Some say, education is the process of gaining information about the surrounding world while knowledge is something very different. They are partly right. But the conversion of information to knowledge is possible because of education. Education makes us capable of interpreting rightly the things perceived. Education is not about lessons and poems in textbooks. It is about the lessons of life.
The words 'cultivate' and 'civilize' are almost synonymous to the word 'educate'. That says it! Education is important as it teaches us the right behavior, the good manners thus making us civilized. It teaches us how to lead our lives. Education is the basis of culture and civilization. It is instrumental in the development of our values and virtues. Education cultivates us into mature individuals, individuals capable of planning for our futures and taking the right decisions. Education arms us with an insight to look at our lives and learn from every experience. The future of a nation is safe in the hands of educated individuals. Education is important for the economic growth of a nation. It fosters principles of equality and socialism. Education forms a support system for talents to excel in life. It is the backbone of society.
Education is important because it equips us with all that is needed to make our dreams come true. Education opens doors of brilliant career opportunities. It fetches better prospects in career and growth. Every employer of today requires his prospective employees to be well educated. He requires expertise. So, education becomes an eligibility criterion for employment into any sector of the industry. We are rewarded for exercising the expertise required for the field we venture. We are weighed in the market on the basis of our educational skills and how well we can apply them.
Education is essential as it paves the path leading to disillusionment. It wipes out all the wrong beliefs in our minds. It helps create a clear picture of everything around us and we no more remain in confusion about the things we learn. Education brings up questions and also devises ways to find satisfactory answers to them. Education is about knowing that everything has a science to it, it is about learning to reason everything till every question meets its answer. Education can lead us to enlightenment. It is education that builds in every individual, a confidence to take decisions, to face life and to accept successes and failures. It instills a sense of pride about the knowledge one has and prepares him/her for life!
Schools and colleges define the basic framework of education. Schooling gives us the fundamentals whereas we specialize in fields of our interest, during the degree courses. But education does not end here. It is a lifelong process. Self-learning begins at the point that marks the end of institutional education. The process of self-learning continues...
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A STUDENT'S PRAYER

Oh! Goddess of knowledge and wisdom!
Many born with me have no source
To pursue education with resource
Which I am blessed thanks to my parents
Who sacrifice all their money
and comforts
To make me well read with quality
So that I may serve them and society!
Help me concentrate on my goal
In all sincerity with my heart and soul!
Knowledge is precious wisdom more
That help me locate what is core
In life
with the guidance of my Master
Whom I revere as your Messenger!
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Friday, October 30, 2009
♥..►MEJORES AMIGOS PARA SIEMPRE..

...movie?..,..
...GOSH!>.
...huh?..
...I am so proud of myself because we had already a movie entitled MEJORES AMIGOS PARA SIEMPRE...It is all about friends who spent their summer vacation to BAGUIO...And after a few days they went to one of the tourist spot of Baguio...Leigh,Gaye and Lou saw a snake and Roger get it.Roger gave it to Desiree and the snake suddenly bite Desiree...Because of that their friendship is broken..
...ooopppsss!...
...the rest of what happened you will know if you watch our movie how it will go...And share it with others what you see about MEJORES AMIGOS PARA SIEMPRE...
....our experience?
..hoh!,,..
...I remember the days we spent for our movie..(taping)...Our laughter, sorrow, misunderstanding etc. The days of our taping is very enjoyable, because we had experienced how to be an actress/actor...hehe..For me Im not a good actress because absolutely I can't play my role ..haha...(being honest..)...
...We enjoy meeting each other for our taping...We went to the Governor's house, my Mama Cathy's house, Nikka's House, Tandag Airport, Arabella's house, and da Port... We enjoy hiring our camera man, tourist guide etc.
...The hours of editing our movie we are very lucky to have ms. Queenie Anne Millan, because without her we will not know how to edit the videos, how to cut, how to insert music and titles...etc...After editing we are very excited to present it because in our minds our movie is the best..hehe..
...Our movie is already done...Our experience in making a movie ay nakatatak sa aming minds...(hehe)...Making a movie is very exciting...hehe..
...want to watch our movie./...If you want too...just see me...
...MEJORES AMIGOS PARA SIEMPRE... is the best...heheh
...everybody join me PALAKPAKAN...HEHE...
...THAT WOULD BE ALL... THANK YOU...
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♥..► Friendship: Good for the Body, Good for the Soul

“Many people will walk in and out of your life; but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart."-- Unknown *
Friends are our truest treasures. How many times have they: Made us laugh when we felt like crying over a bad mistake? Made us feel loved when our boyfriends (or girlfriends) broke up with us? Gave us the courage to go back to school or to change careers? Like armor, good friends make us almost invincible, capable of warding off the blows life occasionally deals us. Because of their steadfastness, we see setbacks for what they are: temporary.
Friends Because friends accept us for who we are, we gain the confidence to dream great dreams—and to make them real. Friends liven up our days with their twisted humor, their honest answers, and their ability to bear our gloating when we beat them at golf or tennis. We can even trust them with our most embarrassing secrets! What a relief it is for us to reveal our true selves to someone!
It’s no wonder, then, that medical researchers have found that those who have friends tend to be happier, healthier, and live longer than those who do not. In fact, friendship has numerous physical and spiritual benefits.
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♥..►bE bEaUtiFuL: 7 tiPs tO aChiEvE LaStiNg bEaUty..♥

A Project in TLE by me, queenie anne and Gecelle.
To have real lasting beauty, it must come from without and from within. Here are seven tips on how to achieve lasting beauty.
Practice Good Grooming and Hygiene
First impressions are always important. Do you project a good initial impression? Good grooming is an important first step to a truly beautiful person. Regular care of your nails,hair,teeth,and all other parts of your body are essential. A daily bath and a good deodorant will provide freedom from unpleasant body odors; good dental hygiene will free you from unpleasant bad breath. Consult a doctor if there is a medical problem.
Improve Your Posture
This refers to the way you stand, sit and move. A good posture makes you feel more confident, improves your voice and your health too.Stand erect, on both feet with your chin parallel to the ground. Look at people when you talk to them and greet them with a sincere smile. Avoid slouching when you sit.
Develop a Good Fashion Sense
Your clothes should be clean and well pressed. They should project classic styles and an overall modest appearance. Avoid trendy or daring outifts and overly revealing clothes. They will send the wrong signal and probably attract the wrong persons, too. Strike a good balance in clothing styles- they should be conservative, middle of the road and projecting a quiet elegance.
Have a Positive Disposition
Learn to look at the bright side of things. If life gives you lemons, learn to make lemonade out of them. Always look at a glass of water “half full, and not half empty”.
Be Outward Looking
Serve others and focus on their needs. In doing so,you will forget yourself and will not be as self-conscious about yourself anymore.
Develop a Sense of Humor
Don't be too serious and learn to lighten up. Read some good jokes and try to remember them. Learn to laugh at yourself, too. Life has enough troubles and you don’t need to add to them.
Dwell on the Beautiful Side of Life
Shy away from gutter language. You could be the most beautiful person on earth but foul language will quickly demolish that image. Whenever you speak, try to be encouraging and genuinely edifying.Give everyone the benefit of the doubt.
As you do these things, beauty will well up inside of you. Then it will overflow and just naturally radiate. You won't need to exert effort to try to look cute or attractive. Beauty will naturally radiate from you. You will no longer care for superficial and fleeting good looks. Because an inner voice will speak and tell you that:
You are beautiful,
Because of what you are inside.
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♥..►mAh aMbiTiOn oR gOaL?...wHaTeVeR...hehe
Different people have different ambitions. An ambition
is an eager, and sometimes an inordinate, desire for honor, superiority, power, or the attainment of something. To obtain a goal that is immensely desired. Ambition is something that everyone, no matter their age or cultural background, has instinctively. Ambition can be a driving force for success, or in some cases a road to failure. Without an ambition we have no purpose in our lives. They are ambitions which are impossible to achieve and ambitions which are possible to achieve.
In my entire life, I already had different ambitions. As I grow, my ambitions changes and grows. Sometimes I dreamed to be a God.But now I realized that I want to be a nurse. To be a nurse is something that I dreamed of.
I selected this field of work because there is self satisfaction in this job. The objective is to help others get relieved from their ailment and pain. Even though doctors are the one who cures the sick people, I want to help the doctor to cure them. Im happy if I can help a person to extend their lives. The nurse does a great service to the society.
In order to achieve this glorious ambition, I must study extremely hard. It would be very important to ace every important subject in my secondary education. I must achieve this ambition because this is my goal. Everyone should have some ambition in life. An ambition gives meaning and purpose to life.
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